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富兰克林提倡的13种品德

  一、节制:食不过饱,酒不过量。
  (1)Temperance: Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation.
  二、缄默:避免空谈,言必对己或对人有益。
  (2)Silence: Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; aviod trifling conversation.
  三、秩序:放东西的地方,做事情的时间要心中有数
  (3)Order: Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time
  四、决心:该做的一定要做,做就要做好。
  (4)Resolution: Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.
  五、节俭:对人或对己有益才可用钱,决不浪费。
  (5)Frugality: Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing
  六、勤奋:珍惜光阴,做有益之事,避无谓之举。
  (6)Industry: Lose no time; be always employ’d in something useful; cut off all unneccessary actions.
  七、真诚:不欺骗,有良知,为人厚道,说话实在。
  (7)Sincerity: Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly
  八、正义:不做不利于人的事,不逃避自己的义务。
  (8)Justice: Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty.
  九、中庸:避免走极端,容忍别人给你的伤害,认为是你应该承受之事。
  (9)Moderation: Avoid extreams; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve.
  十、整洁:保持身体、衣服和住所的整洁。
  (10)Cleaniness: Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, cloaths, or habitation
  十一、冷静:不因小事,寻常之事,不可避免之事而慌乱。
  (11)Tranquility: Be not distuibed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.
  十二、节欲:少行房事,除非考虑到身体健康或者延续子嗣;不要房事过度,伤害身体或者损害自己或他人的安宁与名誉。
  (12)Chastity: Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dulness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another’s peace or reputation.
  十三、谦逊:效法耶酥和苏格拉底。
  (13)Humility: Imitate Jesus and Socrates

富兰克林用了一种非常有意思的方法来养成他的这13条品德。首先他按重要程度把优先级排出来。然后他做了一个品德检查表,每一种品德13个格子,代表13个星期。然后每个星期自我反省,先从第一个品德开始,如果第一周第一个品德没遵守,就画一个黑点(每周只关注一个品德)。第二周继续改正。如果第二周第一个品德没有黑点,则审视第二个品德有没有黑点(上周关注的品德已经具备,则继续关注下一个品德)。如果前两个品德都没有黑点,则下周继续第三个品德。以此类推,直到所有的品德都没有黑点为止(逐个击破)。

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