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盲目乐观,会有什么后果?What are the consequences of blind optimism?

和往常一样,一进地铁我就开始寻找有利位置,找好位置就开始物色模特。今晚的模特是靠近地铁门的一位姑娘,五官大气,长发温柔。我定好头发的位置,开始准备画面部线条。忽然感觉有人在后面小声说:“画我”我转头看了一眼。有个男生腼腆笑了。我以为是他开玩笑,于是我就继续抓紧时间画我选好的那位菇娘。结果,他又继续说:“画我。”

As usual, as soon as I got into the subway, I started looking for a good position and looking for a good place to start looking for a model. Tonight, the model is a girl near the subway door, the air of the five senses, long hair tenderness. I set the position of my hair and began to prepare the picture lines. I suddenly felt a whisper in the back and said, “draw me.” I turned my head and looked at it. There was a boy who was shy and laughed. I thought he was joking, so I kept on drawing the time to draw the girl I had chosen. As a result, he continued, “draw me.”

于是我放弃眼前的美女,转过身说:“好吧,我画你。”
圣诞节快到了,他戴着红色的圣诞帽。男生性格很活泼,我们素未谋面,为了避免紧张,他问我他帅不帅。我说:“你看你这浓眉大眼的,很帅气啊。”
他很开心,立刻对身边的女友说:“你看,我说我很帅气吧。”他女友很开心地笑出声。

So I gave up the beauty of my eyes and turned around and said, “well, I draw you.”
Christmas is coming. He is wearing a red christmas hat. Boy is very lively, we have never met, in order to avoid tension, he asked me handsome. I said: “you are very handsome, with big eyes and bushy eyes.”
He was very happy, and immediately said to his girlfriend, “look, I said I’m pretty handsome.” His girlfriend was happy to laugh.

画画过程旁边的人安静围观,我感觉自己是在旅途中。尽管身边满满一车厢人,我们就像在咖啡厅一样交流。我的站到了,离画面的完整性还差一点,加上只有一根HB铅笔,为了可以不那么遗憾,于是我建议他们到站台我继续再画几分钟。
The people next to the painting were quiet and I felt that I was on the journey. Although we are full of people around us, we communicate in the cafe. I arrived at the station, and I was a little bit away from the integrity of the picture, plus only one HB pencil. In order not to be so sorry, I suggested that they go to the platform for a few minutes.

于是,我们有了一个更加放松的交流环境。他和女友的认识,源于他的主动上前接触。就像今晚,他想要我给他画画,他就说出来了。一个主动的人显然会让生活有一个他喜欢的样子。我夸说积极乐观的人怎么看都好看。他说他是盲目乐观。我说有的人是盲目悲观。

So we have a more relaxed communication environment. His understanding of his girlfriend comes from his initiative. Like tonight, he wanted me to paint him, and he said it. An active person obviously makes life lovely. I say that positive and optimistic people look good. He said he was blind and optimistic. I say some people are blind and pessimistic.

喜欢谁,直接上前告诉TA.不让对方去猜,也不让自己后悔。
Like whom, straight forward to tell TA. not to let the other party guess, do not let themselves regret.

我今天和同事说,现在的我,看到欣赏的人,我会直接上前去认识对方。同事还劝告我说,你不要和陌生人说话。我却说,我遇到的人都很好。
I told my colleagues today that I now, I see the people who appreciate it, I will go straight forward to know each other. My colleagues also advised me to say, you don’t talk to strangers. I said, the people I met were all very good.

这是当时的场景,我的样子可是北京挤地铁的标准背包法。我其实不矮,你们一定要相信我,主要是他女友很高。
This is the scene of the time, I look like the standard backpack method for Beijing subway. I am not short, you must believe me, mainly his girlfriend is very high.

这位男生,无疑是一位很浪漫的人。我们处于这个场景中的时候,他开心地像个孩子地说:“我媳妇这样看好可爱。”

于是他叫住了路过的行人,让帮拍照。我当时说,“可以让你女友帮忙拍啊。”

他怕行人走掉,赶紧把手机给对方,并对我解释说,“就刚这个场景,我觉得很有意义。”

The boy, no doubt a very romantic person. As we were in this scene, he said happily like a child, “my sweetheart is so cute.”

So he called the passersby and asked the gang to take pictures. I said, “you can get your girlfriend to help.”

He was afraid of the pedestrians walk away, quickly put the cell phone to the other, and explained to me, “just this scene, I feel very meaningful.”

一个时刻把你放进他生活场景中的男人,爱你无疑、细心无疑。见过很多人在地铁卿卿我我,今晚这个男生,用这些小细节告诉我他是把她时刻放在自己心里的。

北京的冬天最近超级无敌冷,大家看我的羽绒服就知道了。不过,今晚的情侣却让我觉得很暖。

A man who puts you in his life scene at a time, love you without doubt and no doubt. Have seen a lot of people in the subway Qingqingwowo, tonight the boys, these small details told me he was her moment in his heart.

The winter of Beijing has been super invincible and cold, and you see my down jacket. But the couple tonight makes me feel warm.

这应该是今年最有意义的一次和画画有关的地铁遇见。因为遇到了一个主动的人。积极主动的人,虽然多数情况下是付出的那一个,但是他们选择的是自己想要的。被动的人可能被人疼的多一些,但有的时候,难免会觉得世界总是给自己不那么喜欢的事物。
This should be the most meaningful meeting of the drawing related subway this year. Because I met an active person. Proactive people, although most of the cases are the one to pay, but they choose what they want. Passive people may be much more painful, but sometimes the world always feels that the world is always giving them things that they don’t like so much.

经常看到Airbnb上很多人的游记,说到了一个新的国家,认识一群新的朋友,吃不同风格的美食。很多人就评价说很羡慕。我就在想,为什么我们平日的生活不能过得这么有趣?因为我们觉得每一日都很平凡,没有什么值得惊喜的。

生活里的惊喜,其实有的时候在于创造。比如今晚的这个男生,他就创造了今晚的惊喜。生活,需要充满惊喜,而自己就是这惊喜的制造者。有何不可,有何不妥?盲目乐观,会让你收获意想不到的惊喜。

生活是一个过程,每一个美好的碎片组合起来,就能构成一个美好的场景。

I often see a lot of people on Airbnb’s travels, a new country, a new group of friends, and a different style of food. Many people say they are admired. I was thinking, why can’t our daily life be so interesting? Because we feel that every day is very ordinary, there is nothing to be surprised.

The surprises in life are sometimes created. For example, this boy tonight, he has created a surprise tonight. Life needs to be full of surprises, and you are the maker of this surprise. What is wrong, what is wrong? Blind optimism will give you unexpected surprises.

Life is a process, and every good fragment is combined to make a beautiful scene.

《Lily的画和生活》第141篇推文 因喜欢而坚持~
“The painting and life of Lily” 141th tweets
Love paiting and writing so insist everyday

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